As defined by Glamour, an internet boyfriend is a “famous or semifamous male person whom your entire Twitter feed has a crush on at the same time.” This can happen when a male celebrity goes viral for different reasons, such as a new project where he plays the greenest of green flags, he did a good deed that made everyone go “aaawww”, or he removed his shirt and we’re all surprised how he’s been able to hide all those muscles underneath for a long time.
Internet boyfriends are more than a celebrity crush. According to Esther Zuckerman, a journalist and author of A Field Guide to Internet Boyfriends: Meme-Worthy Celebrity Crushes From A to Z, these celebrities have a positive image and mostly get good press. They’re not sexist, racist or ageist. They’re the answer when the men in our lives disappoint.
So, how does the internet choose its boyfriend? According to this post from The Cut, the criteria are:
- He’s a mysterious guy but still well-known
- Someone authentic
- Earned his position through hard work (so, no nepo babies)
- Flawed
- Rarely appear in romantic movies
Benedict Cumberbatch was one of the first documented internet boyfriends. But there have been hundreds after him. However, only a select few truly deserve and embody that title.