How To Spot A Cheater According To Jewelry Store Employee
Guys who have affairs may think they’re good at covering their tracks, but one woman says it’s easy to spot a cheater in her business. Sarah Renn, who works in a jewelry store, says she can tell when a man is cheating by what he spends his money on.
She started working there a month after finishing her postgraduate degree and claims she figured out the tell-tale signs within a month on the job. The first red flag when spotting a cheater? Buying two different pieces of jewelry. According to Renn, if men weren’t cheating, they’d probably buy a set for their wife, like matching earrings and a necklace.
Other Ways You Can Spot A Cheater
Another sign is if he says his wife only wears yellow gold jewelry, then he asks to see a piece in white gold. “You could tell that this was not for his wife because his demeanor would completely change,” Renn explains to the NY Post. “He’d start looking around, he would start stuttering and he’d say, ‘yeah, just put that on the tab, too. She’d like that.’” And if she asked him about it, he’d start making up excuses. It’s also a dead giveaway to her that he’s being unfaithful if he asks for the items to go in two separate boxes.
What Shouldn’t You Do After Being Cheated On?
Certified sex therapist Marty Klein is here to help. He says that these four things are the worst no-no’s you can make after being cheated on.
- Making big decisions. “No one should make a big decision when they’re really upset,” he stresses. You should take the time and make sure your feelings are more regulated before making any big moves.
- Using the internet to find support. Sure, reading other stories about infidelity may make you feel better. But a lot of the stories online are from the scorned partners who are on “a crusade against those who hurt them.” Looking for advice from others who are in the midst of pain can sway your emotions for the worst.
- Asking for details. Of course, you’re going to have a lot of questions after being cheated on. But you may not be ready to know all the information. Trying to find out this information’s like “consuming empty calories” he says.
- Black and white thinking. A lot of times after being cheated on, the person becomes convinced their partner’s “a liar.” Focusing just on this one action “creates terrible, unnecessary suffering for the betrayed” according to Marty.
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MSU Horticulture Gardens in East Lansing, Michigan
I graduated from Michigan State University, so I’m familiar with our beautiful gardens. In the spring, summer and fall, the MSU Horticulture Gardens are an area of wonder. You can go in the winter, too, but things are much more abloom in the other seasons. It’s a very beautiful and romantic setting, and it’s a perfect romantic date spot. It’s also free to visit. Yes, this is a photo of me at the MSU Gardens. I love it there!
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